My potential mother in law is so nasty - please help!?

um shes his mom he'll never leave her my advice is to convince him to go to counseling with her and you too so your relationship can change. if that doesn't he should move on his own. ( i don't think you guys should move in together until your married or engaged but that's on you) don't take revenge because if he finds out he might just dump you for being rude to his mother even if shes mean shes his mother. try talking to her let her know your true feelings for her son and make compromises on each end of the rope not just you, and your bf needs to stand up for himself and do what's right shes the mother but he's a grown man not a little kid. and if you guys don't solve anything you need yourself a new man that can only love you and respect you because i feel he's not doing that by letting his mom get in between u guys. good luck =)