How should I handle this?

So i met this girl over the weekend at a party/club, we hooked up, and I fell in love instantly (no its not my first hookup) but their was something that made me want this girl. We exchanged numbers, and we texted for the rest of the night. The convo ended with me saying goodnight after she did. The next day I texted her again, but she didnt get back for about 12 hours. When she did we texted for the rest of the night, and the convo ended midway when she said that people were shy of her, and I asked her why? and that was it. I've not heard from her since monday night... I found out that her friends put pressure on her to tell me who I was (she didn't want them to know about me) so she told them she was sorry and that she would try to not hook up with me if their was a next time (she wrote this on her formspring)... So i basically don't think she likes me. I'm not texting her again because i dont want her to get annoyed/ think i'm clingy. I was going to ask her to hang out soon, but I realize now that its all over. or is it? Her friend said that she thought it to be a one night thing and that she doesn't like me as of now, and that she doubts I like her (which i do). Would it be ok to text her again sometime anyways, just to be a friend. Everybodys nagging her about me in a mean way over formspring, (it was on her fb wall) i kind of want to go on formspring and post and annoymous post telling who I am and that they should all grow the f*** up and to stop annoying them... or will she get mad at that. Also how should I tell her i visited her formspring without being creepy?